Cognitive Behavior Therapy
CBT
is a type of psychotherapy that deals with our thoughts--that's the
"cognitive" part of the name--and our behaviors, which is of course
the "behavioral" part of the name. CBT has been thoroughly researched
and found to be an effective treatment for all sorts of disorders. Some of
these are depression, anxiety, trauma, phobias, addictions, eating disorders.
In some cases, the treatment can be effective in as few as 8 sessions,
and the effects are long lasting.
CBT is based on the idea that our
thoughts affect our feelings and our behaviors. Something happens to us, we
use thought to interpret the event, which by the way, can happen so fast that
we don't always notice this happening. Then finally, we react to our
thoughts with emotions and behaviors. Here's a quick example. You call
your friend and they don't answer. Now, two different people could have
two different thoughts about the same situation. Person A might think:
"My friend must be busy". Person B might think: "My friend
doesn't like me". Person A is going to feel fine and will probably
just send a text or something. Person B is going to feel sad, and they
might dwell on what they could've done to upset their friend. This is
called an irrational belief. The irrational belief happened when Person B
thought that their friend didn't like them, without actually having
evidence of that. All they know is that their friend didn't answer the
phone, and they added more to it in their thoughts.
During CBT a therapist
will try to help their client identify their own irrational beliefs. This
can be more challenging than it sounds. Remember what I said earlier, these
thoughts can happen so quickly that we don't even notice them. When this
happens, they're called automatic thoughts, because they happen
automatically, outside of our awareness. Next, the therapist will help
the client to challenge their irrational beliefs. This doesn't mean trying to
make all of their thoughts be positive and happy. It means making them
less negative, and a bit less irrational. Usually when a client is able
to do this, they start to feel a bit better. CBT therapists also try to
help by directly addressing behaviors. Someone who's anxious or
depressed usually has some behaviors that are contributing to their problems.
For example, someone with social anxiety might avoid going out with
friends, which will in the long run, lead to them having fewer friends.
Things like this can often lead to thoughts such as: "I don't have
any friends, it must be because I'm so awkward", which will then worsen
their social anxiety because of their fear that they're awkward.
A
therapist will help by trying to change these behaviors that contribute
to the negative thoughts and feelings. One final big question: Why do
some people have these irrational negative thoughts, while others don't?
Why did Person A think that their friend was busy, while Person B thought that
their friend must be upset with them? One explanation is that everyone has
different core beliefs. These are the beliefs that we hold at the core
of who we are that shape how we see the world. Imagine our beliefs as
a lens. Everyone has a slightly different shade. Person A's lens says,
"people are kind" and "I am a good person". Person B's says
"I am unlovable" and "I am worthless". When Person A and
B go out into the world, they experience everything through the lens of
their core beliefs. Oftentimes, these beliefs can be negative and
self-defeating. CBT can be used to get at these core beliefs and change the
ones that aren't beneficial.
In summary, CBT is a type of psychotherapy
that addresses how a person thinks, and what they do in an attempt to
change how they feel and function in their life. CBT has been found to
be very effective as a treatment for all sorts of disorders. I hope
you're leaving with a better understanding of cognitive behavioral
therapy.
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